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Beaucoup d’entre vous connaissent Otir et son combat au quotidien contre l'exclusion due à l’autisme.

La FECA, l’association qui gère l’école de son fils organise chaque année une levée de fond pour pouvoir poursuivre ses activités.

Grâce à la mobilisation de blogueurs, dont Embruns, et bien d’autres, cette levée de fond prend la bonne voie.

N’hésitez donc pas à visiter son beau blog et à ajouter votre pierre à l’édifice en utilisant le widget çi-dessous.


Tongue twisters

Explorateurs intrépides de la Silicon Valley, Balise et Pierre, son époux mettent à jour des rayons SF grands comme des FNAC, et aussi quelques curiosités culinaires.

Estomacs sensibles, à vos cuvettes :


 Photo de Balise.


 Du chocolat au bacon, avec des vrais morceaux de bacon dedans !


  Photo de Balise.


Le plus drôle dans tout cela est le nom très français de la marque de chocolat : « Vosges Haut-chocolat », synonyme de bon goût culinaire, semble t’il, pour nos amis américains.

Aux dernières nouvelles, Balise ou Pierre n’y ont pas encore touché.

Si tu passes par ici, n’hésite pas à nous faire part de vos impressions !

(si ça se trouve, ce n'est pas si terrible que ça...)


Sacré Ben !

J’avais déjà cité Benjamin Franklin dans une critique virulente, prémonitoire diront certains, du choix de l’animal qui allait devenir l’emblème des Etats-Unis.

Mais ce coureur de jupon a aussi rédigé les quelques lignes suivantes, résumant l’expérience d’une vie en matière de femmes.

J’adore le point 5. C’est dans les vieilles marmites que l’on fait les meilleures soupes, en substance,

Cette lettre a longtemps été censurée.


Advice to a Friend on Choosing a Mistress (1745)

June 25, 1745

My dear Friend,

I know of no Medicine fit to diminish the violent natural Inclinations you mention; and if I did, I think I should not communicate it to you. Marriage is the proper Remedy. It is the most natural State of Man, and therefore the State in which you are most likely to find solid Happiness. Your Reasons against entring into it at present, appear to me not well-founded. The circumstantial Advantages you have in View by postponing it, are not only uncertain, but they are small in comparison with that of the Thing itself, the being married and settled. It is the Man and Woman united that make the compleat human Being. Separate, she wants his Force of Body and Strength of Reason; he, her Softness, Sensibility and acute Discernment. Together they are more likely to succeed in the World. A single Man has not nearly the Value he would have in that State of Union. He is an incomplete Animal. He resembles the odd Half of a Pair of Scissars. If you get a prudent healthy Wife, your Industry in your Profession, with her good Œconomy, will be a Fortune sufficient.

But if you will not take this Counsel, and persist in thinking a Commerce with the Sex inevitable, then I repeat my former Advice, that in all your Amours you should prefer old Women to young ones. You call this a Paradox, and demand my Reasons. They are these:

1.      Because as they have more Knowledge of the World and their Minds are better stor’d with Observations, their Conversation is more improving and more lastingly agreable.

2.      Because when Women cease to be handsome, they study to be good. To maintain their Influence over Men, they supply the Diminution of Beauty by an Augmentation of Utility. They learn to do a 1000 Services small and great, and are the most tender and useful of all Friends when you are sick. Thus they continue amiable. And hence there is hardly such a thing to be found as an old Woman who is not a good Woman.

3.      Because there is no hazard of Children, which irregularly produc’d may be attended with much Inconvenience.

4.      Because thro’ more Experience, they are more prudent and discreet in conducting an Intrigue to prevent Suspicion. The Commerce with them is therefore safer with regard to your Reputation. And with regard to theirs, if the Affair should happen to be known, considerate People might be rather inclin’d to excuse an old Woman who would kindly take care of a young Man, form his Manners by her good Counsels, and prevent his ruining his Health and Fortune among mercenary Prostitutes.

5.      Because in every Animal that walks upright, the Deficiency of the Fluids that fill the Muscles appears first in the highest Part: The Face first grows lank and wrinkled; then the Neck; then the Breast and Arms; the lower Parts continuing to the last as plump as ever: So that covering all above with a Basket, and regarding only what is below the Girdle, it is impossible of two Women to know an old from a young one. And as in the dark all Cats are grey, the Pleasure of corporal Enjoyment with an old Woman is at least equal, and frequently superior, every Knack being by Practice capable of Improvement.

6.      Because the Sin is less. The debauching a Virgin may be her Ruin, and make her for Life unhappy.

7.      Because the Compunction is less. The having made a young Girl miserable may give you frequent bitter Reflections; none of which can attend the making an old Woman happy.


      8[thly and Lastly] They are so grateful!!



Thus much for my Paradox.

But still I advise you to marry directly; being sincerely Your affectionate Friend.




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